It seems like the last couple of days my eyes have been open to how the saying "Do as I say...not as I do" doesn't really work. Let me give you some examples that have happened recently:
Jaed is a very loud boy and sometimes I have had about all I can handle. So instead of saying it in a normal voice, I yell "Jaed, you are tooo LOUD!". How ridiculous is that. I want him to be quiet but yet I'm yelling at him. Hmmm......
When I clean the kitchen and wipe off the counters I brush everything onto the floor because I have to sweep anyways and it seems easier to me. Well, the other day Jaed saw me do it and asked me why I was brushing it on the floor. I explained to him that I had to sweep anyways so it was easier for me to just put it all on the floor. WELL......(can you guess where I'm going with this example?), yesterday morning Jaed spilt his cereal on the table and I told him to clean it up. He proceeded to push it all on the floor. I was dying and couldn't believe he would do such a naughty thing. I asked him what he was doing and he responded "It's easier to just push it on the floor since you have to sweep anyways!". AHHHHHHHHHHH......
Thayne and I are really bad about taking off our clothes and putting them in the dirty clothes basket (mostly because our basket is usually full and spilling over), so the clothes just go on the floor in the area of the basket. Last night, Thayne told Indi to take off her clothes and get her pajamas on. Indi took her clothes off, grabbed them and threw them in different places of the room. Thayne was so bugged. He told her that she needs to put them in her dirty clothes basket, not all over the floor. She looked at him with a confused look on her face, like she never knew that was what she was suppose to do.
We have had extended conversation about how important it is that when the kids are in the car they buckle their seat belts. A couple of times the girls have pretended to buckle and lied about it. Well, I HATE wearing my seatbelt. I know all the reasons I should and try to be mature about it and wear it but sometimes I rebel. Well, since our little talk with the kids I have been put in my place. If we start to drive the car and I don't have my seat belt on, Indi starts chanting "Mommy is not being safe, Mommy is not being safe", and she won't stop until I put the dang belt on.
So the moral of this post is that Thayne and I should be better examples to our children and not expect them to do anything different than what we do. Will we change? Hmmm....I'd like to say "YES" but I might be lying!